Jess…. Hi… I just reread your post and just wanted to let you know you can email (get my address from abs) me if you just need to talk when your husband goes back to work. I can totally understand what you are going through. I had kidney surgery when my first was 4 weeks old. I mean, here it is hard enough to get settled with this new little person but then to add the pain from the surgery on to it also!! And we were just getting the BF thing down when I had to have that done so that was even harder. But after I was off the drugs and able to feed her again, it was nice to get into a grove.
I don’t remember you saying if this was your first?? I have recently had number 3.Â
Anyway… WELCOME GAVIN to the fire family!!Â