i liked fire chica’s response to tonya’s sit…..and fire momma you are right on when you say that we are all different. it is true, everyone has different thresholds and just because one person says they would tolerate something doesn’t mean it’s right for everyone. looking back, my advice may seem forgiving, but i just think it’s important to hear the other’s side of the story and not jump to conclusions. although, i have to say, honestly, that i would be extremely po’d with three nights of boozing and no calls when it was definitely possible, but i am a wife and my husband doesn’t act this way normally, so i wouldn’t expect him to do it while he’s working on a fire. i don’t think there would be any excuse for that. don’t get me wrong, i wouldn’t care if he went drinking with his buddies every night if he called me and let me know i was on his mind.
i am on a emotional rollercoaster ride dealing with my own sit. i’m flying out to where my husband is on friday to ride back home with him and i want to clear my head before then. let’s just say, right now i am feeling that my man may get a a bunch of ‘oh, i forgot’ ‘s when he gets home. i’ll save you all from my ranting…… i gotta go for a run…