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  • 08/05/2002
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So much has happened over the weekend, I don’t know where to start. My FF is
home, yippee, I think. I picked him up at the airport last night. His crew
was sent home a week early. I was so excited to get to see him, since he I had
only talked to him once, yesterday morning to find out when to pick him up,
since he left. Needless to say, things went from good to bad to worse. I like
the rest of you worry myself sick about him whenever he is gone. But what he
did was inexcusable. I found out that he has been in and out of hotels since
Friday night, and instead of calling me just for a minute to tell me that he
was alive and ok, he has been out drinking with
his FF buddies every night, in bars till all hours of the morning. Three
nights in a hotel and he didn’t bother to call anyone, me or the rest of his
family. I’m not sure what to even think about that, I understand that the trip
was a let down for him, he really didn’t want to come home, but I feel like
that was unacceptable of him not to even call once to tell someone that he was
OK! Maybe I’m overreacting, maybe I shouldn’t be mad, but I really cant help
it. I kept my cool and didn’t kill him last night, I just fed him, gave him a
massage, yes even the rotten feet, and sent him off to bed. I knew better than
to start the discussion about this with him tired and me so angry that I could
spit nails through oak boards. Tonight we are going to talk about it,
hopefully calmly, but I’m not going to count on it.

Has anyone dealt with their FFs doing something this stupid? If so, how did
you handle it? I’m not going to see him to talk about it until late tonight,
if anyone has any advice please let me know. I don’t want this to become any
larger of a problem than it already is.


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