Yeah, Iâ€™ve been there too (almost exactly). And I responded pretty much the same way…didnâ€™t really get me anywhere. If you know heâ€™s in a position to get mail, Iâ€™d write him a letter. â€œThis pissed me off, but I understand your bond with your buddies, so Iâ€™m not permanently pissed off, but please donâ€™t put me in a position like that again, and letâ€™s make your next homecoming like your last one should have been.â€ Make it up-beat. I really like letters because they eliminate misunderstandings…he can read it as many times as necessary to get your point.
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